Studies look at the link between the workplace and divorce. Farmers and librarians in the Charlotte area may be among the least likely people to get a divorce while people who work in restaurants and hotels may be among the most. A study by researchers at Stockholm University that appeared in Biology Letters looked at the connection between a person's workplace and divorce and found that these were the professions with the highest and lowest divorce rates. Primarily, the study was looking at … [Read more...]
When Divorce Mediation Isn’t Appropriate
Why Individuals who cannot properly advocate on their own behalf will need an attorney. Going into mediation and not being able to stand up for one's own wishes can result in accepting settlement terms that can harmful for the individuals and their children. Marriages with a history of violence should not be resolved through mediation. Social science indicates that abusive partners are not inclined to empathize with the people that they abuse. It is highly unlikely that they will properly … [Read more...]
North Carolina seniors: divorce and divisions can be amicable
The Pew Research Center reports that the divorce rate among older Americans has doubled and even tripled for some age groups over the last 30 years. When it comes to divorce, it can be a lengthier process for seniors because they typically have more complex assets to divide. However, older couples may try to part ways on friendly terms. By following a few tips regarding financial decisions, couples could make the situation end on a more positive note. A collaborative divorce is an option … [Read more...]
You’ve Decided to Divorce – Now What? Children, Custody and Visitation.
You have reached the decision to separate and get a divorce. Although you cannot actually file for a divorce until after you have been separated for over a year, couples might be more likely to separate in January than in other months. If the day has finally come that you and your spouse need to call it quits, you might be wondering what to do next. Should I move out of the house? How do I handle my finances while we are separated? How do I manage custody of the children, … [Read more...]
What Are Your Rights When Your Spouse is Abusive? Domestic Violence Protective Orders (50B)
Being a spouse or partner in an abusive relationship is a very difficult situation for you and your children. Not knowing where to turn or what rights you have to protect yourself and your family can be painful as you try to do the best you can. The state of North Carolina provides protection for people in this situation through the courts – Domestic Violence Protective Orders, which are also called a “50B,” or Restraining Order. A Restraining Order, is signed by a judge and orders your … [Read more...]
You’ve Decided to Divorce – Now What? Should You Move Out
The holidays are over and you have reached the decision to separate and get a divorce. First, you are not alone as couples that decide to separate often do so right after the Holiday Season. Although you cannot actually file for a divorce until after you have been separated for over a year, couples might be more likely to separate in January than in other months. There are a few reasons for this. One, people do not want to divorce or separate during the holidays. This may be particularly … [Read more...]
You’ve Decided to Divorce – Now What? Handling Your Finances
The holidays are over and you have reached the decision to separate and get a divorce. Although you cannot actually file for a divorce until after you have been separated for over a year, couples might be more likely to separate in January than in other months. If the day has finally come that you and your spouse need to call it quits, you might be wondering what to do next. Should I move out of the house? (covered in a previously blog post you can read here) How do I handle my … [Read more...]
Taking the Concern of Money and Property out of your Marriage: Why you should consider a Pre-nup and Post-nup Agreement
You have found the love of your life and are planning your marriage (or you are currently married to the love of your life – congratulations - in which case you may need a post-nuptial agreement as described below). While you plan for your life ahead, including the wedding, you might be thinking about all the “stuff” you both have and how you would like to protect it … just in case. That’s what a pre-nup agreement does, right? Most people believe that a pre-nup agreement is a way to … [Read more...]
A legal separation can make your divorce easier
If you are thinking about ending your marriage, you may be wondering if you should have a legal separation in place while your divorce is in process. While some couples separate for a time and either move forward with a divorce or try to reconcile, these are usually not cases of legal separation. When you opt for a legal separation, you will have to obtain a court approved agreement that details the terms of the separation. In order to make your separation legal in the Charlotte area, you … [Read more...]
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